Love maturely not idealistically

Feeling and emotions change. It doesn't mean that if you don't feel for each other anymore, the love is gone. If love were only feelings, then there is no such thing as lasting. Love can sometimes turn numb or even boring. But no matter what, as long as you choose and decide to still continue, it will be more beautiful. Perhaps love is just taking a rest, you just have to be patient. Because love itself is like life, not all the time you are in for all its happiness. Sometimes you also have to give in to its bitterness. Love maturely not idealistically.